Showing posts with label gay. Show all posts
Showing posts with label gay. Show all posts

Saturday, March 14, 2009

Homosexuality - Mental, Physical or Just a Preference

In the middle east, homosexuality is the most shameful thing to ever exist. I was born and raised this way. I can't change what I think about it although I am trying to. It's not about me though, it's about an entire culture.

In the west, homosexuality is normal but not considered a norm. It's a very interesting thing. They say people are born with homosexuality; what defines their homosexuality then? Their mental health? Their physiology? Or they are born normal but preferred same sex relationships?

First let's talk about homosexuality in the west and the middle east.

Middle East
  • Homosexuality is forbidden, unaccepted and very wrong
  • Homosexuality is sometimes considered a "fashion" or a "cool" experience
  • Having a homosexual son or daughter is enough reason for the parents to murder the sibling to prevent shame and defend their honor
  • A gay person is always considered a guy "acting like a girl, giving oral sex receiving anal sex"
  • Homosexuals have homosexual friends and few straight friends. For guy, homosexuals normally have more female friends.
  • A homosexual is forced to get out of his preference and marry from the opposite sex after all
  • Homosexuals have normal relationships but very discretely
  • Homosexuals never expose themselves in public in their true "nature"
  • Homosexuality in the middle east is more of an experience rather than a lifetime "sexual abnormality"
West
  • Homosexuality is normal and accepted
  • Some countries allow same sex marriages
  • Adoption for a homosexual couple is allowed
  • In some countries, they have their own parades
I think there are many reasons behind homosexuality based on the research I conducted. Homosexuality can be a physical disorder. Let me explain. Some people are born males, but have very small or sometimes tiny genitals and their hormones are unstable that they can't reach puberty. In females, some are born with a high testosterone amount in their body that they start developing male voices, big clitoris, small breasts and facial hair, they are the characteristics of males. In this case a male with this disorder turn into a homosexual from the femininity and the female can turn into a homosexual because of the extra masculinity. of course such conditions can be treated or the person can, with the recent advanced medicine, have a sex change surgery. They can't help it because they are born with this disorder.